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THE BOOMER LEGACY!

12/18/2014

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     The boomer generation is upon us.  It did start some years ago and is roaring forward like a runaway locomotive.  The make up of this generation is widely varied.  There is no real constant that binds us together with the exception of the period of time during which we were born.  The mere fact, though, of the time period of our birth has been something studied by those interested in demographics and especially those who make their living planning market strategies.  
     For a good number of years, our generation was the object of marketing plans intending to appeal to us as we were a very large population that worked, played, procreated and spent money.  A marketers dream.  We were studied and romanced as it was thought that we had the means to make or break a company, a product, movement or an idea.  We had money, time and an intention to live life as we wanted to live life. One just needed to get our attention and appeal to our desires and wants.  I am sure that fortunes were made or lost based upon how successful one was to grabbing the attention of the boomers and thus their wallets.  
     Something has changed, though, over the last ten or fifteen years.  The marketing and advertising titans have abandoned the boomers.  No longer are we the darlings of commerce but rather at best an after thought in any marketing strategy or campaign.  We are not the darlings any longer.  I have read many different explanations why this has happened ranging from an idea that we are done living life to its fullest to the thought that our likes and preferences are already established and that we will not change.  Our interest in new and exciting technologies, places to go, things to do has been lost as the thinking goes.  
     Studies in the US show how the boomer generation feels as though they are ignored by marketers and companies in their approach to appealing to the buying public.  This in the face of facts re numbers of boomers who still lead active lives and control most of the money and capital not only here but elsewhere.  A recent study conducted in the UK indicates that people in their 50's and 60's feel misrepresented by various business sectors including retail, health, travel, leisure, money and fashion.  The boomer generation constitutes about 29% of Britain's adult population and controls about 80% of the wealth in Britain.  
     The survey/study also revealed that 70% of boomers regularly surf the internet looking for the best prices, about 69% use the internet to research travel options and many book their travel arrangements online.  Apple is one company that appreciates the boomer generation as they recognize the high percentage of boomers that use their products.  
     So where does this lead me in this post.  I entitled it "The Boomer Legacy".  My thought was that are we going to pass into history as a generation that aged like all those before us?  Are we going to be ignored, belittled and discounted as a vital part of society?  I don't think so.  I am not advocating a mass movement such as when we protested the war in Viet Nam.  I am not suggesting we march in the streets and demand attention.  What I am saying is that change will begin to take place as we, as individuals, live more active and meaningful lives as "seniors".  Government, the "marketing gods" and society in general do not consider us vital to society.  However, we do consider ourselves vital and can begin to change the outlook of others if we actually live fulfilling lives, not lives of apology, regret and inactivity.  It is up to each one of us to change our life.  It is not a task to be given over to the government, our families or our neighbors.  It is our responsibility to undertake the kind of living that makes a difference.  When we do this, things will change.  
     
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SENIOR DISSIPATION OR SENIOR EMANCIPATON?

12/2/2014

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     As a member of the "senior set" I have to ask myself if the balance of my life, my final chapter, is to be one of dissipation or emancipation.  I am very cognizant of the fact that many might disagree with my choice of these two nouns.  Trust me, I am using them to convey a specific message.  
     Dissipation as a noun has many meanings.  The definition I use here is "a wasting by misuse".  Liberation is the definition I use for emancipation.  I set out the definitions I am using to set the frame work of the thoughts that have been mulling around in my brain.  These thoughts have centered on how I am going to live the balance of my life.  
     My business partner and co-founder of Odyssey, Jim Baker, and I have discussed at length the quandry with which many seniors are faced.  Often we feel, and rightly so, that our worth to society and those closest to us has greatly diminished.  Politicians really only consider us as a voting block before an election, we are no longer the, or one of the, primary wage earners in the family unit, our present or past employers often merely tolerate us as we are no longer a vital part of the machinery of commerce.  Others have judged our worth to society as declining, fast becoming a burden to those around us.  
     Advertisers and marketers roll out stereo types of "older folks" barely able to walk, communicate and certainly not using the newest in technology available.  We still think our IBM Selectric is the greatest invention of all time!  The question begs to be asked who is the biggest culprit in this drama of life.  I believe in my life it is me.  If I accept this stereo typing of me, if I buy into the idea that my value as a human being and my ability to contribute is much limited then I can look into the mirror and place the blame.  This is why I would say I am leading a life of dissipation if I continue to accept these ideas of ineptitude and in fact foster such ideas by my continued attitudes and behaviors.  I am "wasting my life by misuse".  
     My goal is to live a life of emancipation.  I want to be liberated from all those things that influence my thinking in a debilitating way, to expel the impediments that hold me back.  I want to live a life that is fulfilling not just full.  I don't want to wait around and be part of life as an after thought.  
     What Jim and I have done is to develop a program that is meant to address the final phase of our lives.  That time in life when the kids are adults living their own lives,  We are retired, semi-retired or perhaps phased-out of our employment.  Our lives are not so much directed by forces from outside of ourselves, in fact our lives are much more our own to direct ourselves.  The question I pose to myself is how am I going to live that life.  It is hard for me to believe that I will get maximum enjoyment by sitting back in my lounge chair flipping through the cable stations trying to find something interesting and all the time complaining that no one seems to want to involve me in their lives!  Well, I can't imagine anything I would have to contribute if my life is one of discontent and stagnation.  
     So the question I pose to myself is how to make changes that allow me to lead a fulfilling life, one that has meaning and allows me to be involved.  My thought is that if my life has meaning, if I am happy and content, perhaps those around me just might find it to some degree desirable to have my company.  So we have a program that we think addresses some things that, if dealt with, just might provide the opportunity for us to write a great final chapter to our lives.  A chapter that represents a life that is fulfilling not just full.  Give our website a visit and see what we are offering.  You just might find yourself and your life on a new course.  Visit us at www.odysseywise.com.  Have a good night.


      
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    Jim Baker
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    Odyssey a program for intentional aging.
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