1. One who doesn't seek attention and is secure in who they are. If I am continually seeking the attention of others I must be doing it for a reason.
2. Not overly concerned with being liked. Not needing to manipulate who he/she is in an effort to impress others.
3. One who is comfortable in his/her own skin. Accepting who one really is.
4. One who does what he/she says and says what they mean. Does one keep their commitments?
5. One who doesn't need a lot of stuff. One's value isn't measured by material possessions.
6. One who is not thin skinned. Doesn't take himself/herself too seriously.
7. Not too modest or too boastful.
8. One who is consistent and predictable.
9. One who practices what they preach and is not self-righteous.
That is the list. I found it an interesting exercise in determining who I am and how I might seem to others.